What does this sound like? Does that sound like a person trapped for death in a dungeon?? or
Does that sound like some woman's cry for help in a country like India?? Why does the media show the status of women something like that?? Why do people think women in India are not given equal status?? Is that true or is that a hype?? In a country, where the President is a Woman, why would this cry be heard.....why??
Woman's day!! A day dedicated for women (by whom? I don't know!) It makes me feel sorry, because it is a fight for a girl in a society like India. A fight to live a decent life, to go through a normal day, with out some eyebrows rising and some ears biting... The Great Old man once told India will have its freedom when a woman can walk on a lonely street all alone safe and sound... Is he true?? Are Indian men so bad?? Is it the culture thats not changing?? Why should the culture change?? We were one of the greatest lands a white man has ever explored!!
Let us narrow down to something simple now.. what does each gender want from the other??
Lets start with Men.. Indian men.. An average Indian Man wants - a Mother who feeds him, a wife who gives him (everything from respect to sex), a daughter(or sister) who adores him (and follows his rules). He just can not imagine an average Indian woman to be in any other role.
Indian Woman on the other hand, NEED many more things than what an average Man can give.. freedom when she wants to do something out of ordinary, support when things go wrong, respect when they go right, solace when sad, understanding when confused, a heart when in love, your ears when speaking(a lot), safety under street lights, sunshades under day light, and the list can go on....
But you know what, one thing Indian men won't and can't accept is that they take serious advice from their wife, and when she is right.... Men please wake up.. think beyond a mother, wife, sister or a daughter... think a friend.. a human being... Give her what she needs, its not a big deal to get up (unless you are cripple) and offer your seat to a lady (pretty or not it does not matter)
And women, please don't complain about reservations, they don't give you what you need. At the same time you do not need to compete with men.. just work with men.. thats good enough... It is a known fact that a woman's enemy is always a woman.. so cut that crap of jealousy... I know There are far more serious issues with women in India, from fetus killing to child molestation to forced prostitution... Though it is heart breaking to listen to such tragedies, a country's development does not depend on those numbers going down, the countries development depends on you walking out and fighting for what you want to become... Please continue to fight...something that you are good at..
If you don't know, let me tell you it is not as easy as you may think to a man either... but of course it is a lesser fight than yours. Ladies, Sometimes you have pay for your virtues. Women, a complicated mind in a sophisticated body, with many tangential morals.
"And one fine day, a prince came to the the window, I shouted to save me, he said 'The door is not locked why in the hell you were shouting out for help' "
